Saturday, October 13, 2007

FR: Another Crazy Chick and a Night Full of HBs

I'm finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel in terms of my work and working tons of hours.

A couple of my good friends (non-community guys and girls) decide to come up from OC and hang out in Hollywood, so I decide to head out there with my roommate (non-community) and have a good time. There's at least one girl going that I know is an HB, an 8. Short, cute little Latina chick. We always have this sexual vibe going, so I know it will be fun if she is there.

One problem...it's fucking raining! and we're going to Cabana Club which is mostly outdoors...oh well...

So HB Cutie Latina was at my 25th birthday celebration down in OC and we basically danced the night away. Well, my good friend from high school was saying how she said that I was pulling her to dance with me and being aggressive with her at my birthday when I saw him tonight. Of course, he didn't believe her since he saw what was going on that night, but seriously, I was also like WTF. That kind of ruined my state, but I decided I wouldn't let it phase me.

In addition, Stage 5 Clinger's cousin was hanging out with us, but I got fair warning from another friend and I stayed clear of her and her friend to make sure I didn't do anything stupid with them.

The night basically started out slow. Not much going on. I was just dancing with my guy friends having a good time. My best female friend starts pushing me toward HB Cutie Latina as she knows we have great chemistry, so I'm like WTF? No, I'm not going over there. She's going to have to come to me.

So it turns out HB Cutie Latina comes to me and we start dancing. She grabs my hand and we dance. Same shit as my birthday. haha.

I decide to go out for some air and to check if it's still raining. I end up running into someone from the Lounge. Sorry bro, I know your real name, but i don't remember your handle. It was cool seeing you out there. Hope you had a good time.

Go back inside and decide to get some drinks with my guy friends. Go to the bar and my friend is ordering me a drink when this HB Asian rolls up with her guy friend and asks me what we're all drinking? So I'm like, not sure yet, still ordering. She does something freaky with her guy friend and I say, "wow, innocent on the outside, but freaky on the inside. I like it." She's definitely into it. It seems like they're a couple, but she keeps looking back at me after I made that comment. She comes back up to me and is like, "well, you look even more innocent." So I tell her, "you're right, I do. That just means I'm even more freaky in bed." This totally gets her intrigued and all worked up. She goes back to her guy and they get to the bar and order. She keeps looking back and me and smiling. I just give her a flirty smile and a flick of my tongue. This gets her all worked up again and she looks away.

I tell my friends, look at that chick, she's with that guy but she can't get away from me, chicks are such cheaters it's ridiculous. My friends agree that she wants my dick.

After her guy gets her a drink, she comes back to me and asks me what I'm drinking. I tell her Grey Goose and Tonic, a classy drink, I don't know if you can handle it, :Smile:. She gives me this disgusted face like "that drink is fucking nasty." I ask her, "what are you drinking?" She tells me, "let's switch drinks." We switch drinks and she sips mine and doesn't like it. I don't even taste hers. I get intro'ed to her guy. He's actually her friend and not her guy. Interesting...especially since I thought they kissed earlier... anyway... They tell me to come out with them and meet their friends. Alright, I head out to where there is less music and we chat a bit. I find out the HB and I have a lot in common. So i move her and isolate her. We chat some more. I do a lot of push pull. I reward her for things I like and punish her when she does something I don't like. I pretend to get up a bunch of times and she always pulled me back down to talk to her.

I tell her, "I'm going to go find my friends. Come dance with me." So I grab her hand and lead her to the dance floor where we dance and run into a couple of her friends. We dance some, but I can't hear her, so I tell her let's move. Move her again to a VIP table and chat there. Her friends join us and they're intrigued by me. I am the center of attention and her friends approve. Lead the men and women and the women will follow.

I tell her, "let's go dance." Go back to the dancefloor. Now, all of her friends are off the dancefloor and we are totally isolated. I dance with her. She moves her head closer to mine while we dance and closes her eyes. I know this is my cue to kiss her. I go in and lightly kiss her on her lips. I start to pull away, but she follows me so I linger there. We have a nice kiss and finally pull away. I think she is starting to have a little regret since I didn't provide that much comfort. We dance some more and she wants to go find her friends. We find her friends and she's kind of ignoring me, so I tell her bye and that I'm going to find my friends.

I find my friends and hang out with them. I tell them of the "crazy, drunk Asian girl who wants my dick" and HB Cutie Latina is like, "what about me? I thought we have great chemistry?! =(" So I tap her on the head and pull her into me and give her a hug. I don't say anything.

I tell her, let's go dance. All of us go back to the dance floor and it's on again with HB Cutie Latina. I'm running my hands all over her body and she's letting me, even having taking my hands and putting them in places that are a little more private. haha.

I tell her I need to stop, she is turning me on too much. She says, "good, let's keep going." So we keep dancing. She can feel my hard on on her legs and ass. She's loving it. So am I. hahaha. We dance hand in hand and ass to crotch and then face to face for a while.

There's 2 other hot girls in this social circle and I can see the AIs and IOIs. One's an 8, HB Blonde Asian and the other is a 9, HB Black Dress. This is ridiculous. i don't know what to do. haha. So, my gay guy friend comes over and I have HB Cutie Latina dance with him for a bit. I go and "save" HB Blonde Asian from some guy who came up to her and we dance. She ALSO has me put my hands close to her private places...haha. i'm not complaining.

Then I let her go and I put my hand out to HB Black Dress. She accepts and we start dancing. Again, I'm dancing with her, her ass to my crotch. She also grabs my hand and puts them in proximity of her private places. Coolness. I also run my hands up and down her legs, under her dress. She doesn't care. She loves it. Man, i can see the jealousy plotlines occurring. Holy crap...

I let her go...

HB Cutie Latina comes back and we dance again, hand in hand. She really wants me...but being that she's a really good friend of my best female friend, I'm reluctant to move her and isolate her. I don't want to fuck this up, especially since I had already kissed HB Crazy Asian earlier.

I decide to leave and go find HB Crazy Asian to get her contact info. I find her and ask her, we should hang out again, what would be the best way to contact you? She says email. fuck...i HATE email... i must have left too soon after i kissed her and didn't build up enough comfort for the number. So after I get her email, we end up chatting for a bit. She stands in front of my crotch with her hands around my neck and i have my legs wrapped around her, pulling her harder into my crotch, leaning back, of course. We talk like that for a bit and the sexual tension is high. her friends are around so nothing happens, but she tells me to make sure I email her. OK, will do.

I go back and find my friends. Dance with HB Cutie Latina some more then let her dance with our gay friend. I try to dance with HB Black Dress, but she's not having any. I can see the change in attitude. She has lost the attraction. She thinks i'm a player. Oh well. I dance with HB Blonde Asian some, but I'd rather dance with HB Cutie latina. I put my hand out to her and we dance some more. I didn't force anything on her or be aggressive. She wanted me... She was always the one to grab my hand and interlock fingers. I didn't pull her into me ever unless she indicated she wanted me to. Although, I never initiated the contact, I always lead the interaction when we were together. That was key.

Anyway, it was getting close to closing so I decided I had had enough and it was time to head home. i say my goodbyes and HB Cutie Latina and I have a long hug. I'll be sure to message her on myspace tomorrow.

Summary:

Even though I haven't done much gaming in the last 2 or 3 months, there has been a dramatic shift in my game after the lay during my 30 day challenge. I have a much more sexual, fun frame and I am no longer afraid to go for the kiss. It just comes easily and naturally now. I am noticing the AIs and IOIs a lot easier now and can easily tell when a girl is attracted. it's the subtle body language and the actions she does.

My image is congruent with who I am, increasingly sexual, and my game is becoming more natural. Now, if only i could go out more often, i would probably be posting more LRs instead of just FRs about kiss closes...

(A lot of this is rambling since it's like 3AM. I will clean this up in the morning...)

Thursday, October 04, 2007

FR: Stage 5 Clinger

This isn't really anything to learn from. Just an entertaining story for all of you...

So in between long hours of work and before my weekend of work that included 25 billable hours, I went out with a couple of non-community (aside from Holiday and the iC) friends to V Lounge.

It was just supposed to be a chill night celebrating the fact that my cousin moved out here from Arizona. Along with my friends that came up from OC, my best female friend invited a couple of her friends out with her. One was not my type, one was OK, but was previously not OK (she's Asian and used to have bleach blonde hair - Asians with blonde hair is not my thing).

Anyway, as things would have it, I got ridiculously drunk because I had an extremely long week of work and I was just happy to be out with a bunch of close friends (and family - my cousin).

Opened a couple sets here and there, but I mostly wanted to get drunk and dance. I ended up dancing with my best female friend's OK looking friend, I'll call her Stage 5 Clinger, or S5C for short.

Anyway, the whole night I'm just being the center of attention, just having fun and making my friends laugh, and I know S5C is attracted. All the signals are there. Granted, I'm also really drunk. So I grab her and tell her to follow me to the bar. She complies.

On the way to the bar, I tell her, "I'm trying to so hard not to kiss you right now..."

And she responds with, "why?"

So I of course kiss her.

We end up never going to the bar, but end up sitting down and chatting - she needed comfort.

Long story short, I was drunk and did something I normally wouldn't have and would end up regretting.

Fast forward a day.

The next day, I get these notifications in my email from her sending me a message on my myspace, then asking to be my friend. OK, that's not too bad. Pretty normal for myspace.

Then she gets my AIM SN somehow... and on Tuesday night, she IMs me, but I'm going to bed, so I ignore her and go to bed.

So then yesterday, after I get to work, she IMs me and we start chatting.

From her messages on myspace, I thought maybe she just likes to keep things short when she types messages because she typs lik dis wenev she rites nething out. I was hoping that maybe...she just does that in messages to save effort and hopefully doesn't do that normally...like in conversations on IM.

No, I was wrong. She types like that in IM too. HOLY FUCKING SHIT. WHO DOES THAT?? REALLY?? GIRLS in FUCKING HIGH SCHOOL. SHE'S FUCKING 27!!!

27!!!!

AAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH!!! I wanted to gouge my eyes out and THEN stick a fork up my ass. That would have been less painful to experience than this conversation.

Really...that was the hardest conversation I've probably ever had over AIM.

So after awhile the convo kind of died (I started giving one word answers) and I just ignored her, and she finally went away. BUT she later IMed me saying, oh sorry, I fell asleep. Um, ok...didn't respond.

I get off work and then go to the meeting (great meeting and meeting all of you).

Got home around 11 after picking up some food. Ate, watched a little TV, then went to bed around 12. I turn on AIM and before the buddy list even populates, before I can even see who is online, "Hello!" from her...

WTF!!!

Stage 5 Clinger.